Oct 31 2009
How To Win Her Back - With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics
She’s currently out of your life, but you obviously want her back into it. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don’t count. What does count is you getting her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
Sneakily get her to return your call
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.
This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.
Later I can show you how to get yourself the exact letter to send. And some other tricks like this.
Memories are there to be used
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.
Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. Her mind will start to think you when she thinks about or hears that song because it was on in the background of your phone conversation. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.
Curious jealousy
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. If it works right she starts to feel that it should be you & her out and not you & your friends.
There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Other may look on them as wrong, but they aren’t going to do any lasting harm. They are quite simple and harmless. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. If you don’t have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.
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